Recognize - Resolve - Renew

Find out WHY Loving Couples - argue & fight

Discover how to turn the tide, regain your self respect, and feel Heard Again

Communication & Understanding

Improve the two of these and claim a long happier marriage

Are you ready to Transform your Marriage?


the frustration,


and energy drainers,

so that you can 

feel the

Love again



When you work with me,

you'll follow the Triple R Method

Recognize, Resolve, & Renew 





#1 - You will recognize & identify the key marital challenges you and your partner are facing


#2 -  Learn new ways you can Resolve the Conflict and melt away your differences


#3 - You'll use communication and connection secrets most do not know,

and begin to reset your life together.



Ultimately we are all.......

 Looking to be heard, understood, and appreciated by our spouse, but sometimes there are factors that are out of our control. Things we just don't understand.

This is when we....

Have to seek help in unveiling what the root cause is.  Our past experiences in life result in multiple marriages, divided families, and a lifetime of wrong choices and disappointment.

Resulting in.....

Avoidable wrong choices and disappointment, failed marriages and divided families



But it doesn't have to be that way!

You can change your circumstances.  Discover why you and your spouse are not getting along and how to turn it around now.


Top Causes


Marital Discord 


*Past Experiences leak into the Present


*Different Personalities Clashing 


*Hot Tempers dividing       


*Stress taking it's toll 


*Feeling Disrespected


*The usual Money Challenges


*You're both too busy


*Forgetting the importance of Listening


*Results are Discontentment



Here's what people are saying about

The "Communication Secrets for Spouses" 10 week masterplan

My husband didn't want to do the class with me and then LOVED it

"I loved learning about all of the different personality types, even my husband (who honestly didn't want to do the class) LOVED it once it started!  We still yell out our personality types when they really start to show themselves! "

Nikki Duncan
Owner - My Secretary


We use it everyday! 

 In how we communicate with each and how we parent.  Knowing our differences helps us to be better communicators.  I’ve learned that my husband just needs me to be direct and say what I’m thinking or feeling vs keeping it bottled up and then exploding.  We try to take those differences and use them to balance us out.

Amee Davison - Realtor 

I though the program was very informative

"Kelly said, I did the DISC program several years ago and it helps doing it again, as years have changed the circumstances in life i.e. retirement, work, empty nest, adult children now married, etc.  It's wonderful to have different types of people in this world and know how to relate based on their personality."

Kelly Baker
KBO Credit Card Processing



Ignite new energy,


joy &



as you learn the

Secrets of Marriages

that help you 

THRIVE for Life.



* Would you like to understand your spouse so that you

can enjoy each other more, day in and day out?



* What if you could stop sweating the small stuff

& begin to dream

and talk about your future again?



*Do you want to know

how to read your partners non verbal cues and

crack the communication code?



* Are you ready to turn up the dial on love, joy, & respect,

as you find out how

to become the happy couple,

you've always known you could be?



Begin Here

Step 1

Find quick tips for success by Downloading >> > 25 secrets to boost your Marital MOJO FREE 

Step 2

Map out your Journey & learn how to Dream again with >>> "The Couples Roadmap"

Step 3

Unleased your passion, connection, and joy with "Communication Secrets for Spouses"


You Deserve


Happy Marriage for LIFE!!

Hi I'm Connie,

I've been married for over 35 years and have grown kids with kids, and that means I've seen many ups and downs in life.  I've been there, done that!


Marriage starts out great but soon the stress of money, kids and the day to day grind turns into managing, reacting and dealing with frustration.  Soon you loose sight of what you wanted your life to look like and begin to accept what you get.

 I help you resolve those differences, and get past the things that divide you, and bring back the original love and connection you once had.  


I Love and Respect God, Family & all People, and believe there's some good in everyone but,.... If you were never modeled a healthy happy marriage, and how to overcome disagreements and differences,  then it's no wonder that it's been a challenge for you and your partner.


I'm here to help you learn exactly what to do, so that you can have the happy marriage you want.


If you have children,

healing your marriage

can be even more important.

When we live in a peaceful

loving home, we grow up to be

loving, thoughtful, intuitive adults.


Your Home is where your Heart is.

It should be a safe place and your favorite place for both you, your partner and your kids.


I hope you'll hang out with meBegin with my "25 Secrets to Boost your Marital Mojo" and I'll talk to you soon.



The Relationship Transformer,

Connie Durham


PS . . . . . As I like to say . . . . . 

Happier Marriages = Happier Kids


Connie's Blog Posts

Watch the latest blog now and find support, encouragement, and just maybe a light bulb moment that will begin a Transformation in your Marriage. John Maxwell says "Change is Inevitable. Growth is Optional."


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