Relationship Transformations 

In an ever changing world

of technology and what people value,

ONE THING doesn't change. 

The Value of Relationships

and the Human Need for Personal Growth.

Insightful - Reliable - Communication Techniques for Couples

Celebrity Couples Rock!!

I'm sure they have to work harder than most to be "A Super Savvy Spouse"!

Chrissy & John

Chrissy & John were married in 2013.  "Celebrity couples may be more high-profile than most, but when it comes to making their love last, they're build on the foundations that make any union strong:  trust, communication, humor, patience and unconditional love." (photo by Karwai Tank/Getty images....Article from "Parade")

George & Amal

"The human rights lawyer and actor have been married since 2014 and in 2017, they welcomed twins Ella and Alexander. “I knew when I met her that she was super extraordinary. I wondered if I would ever get a chance to date her,” George Clooney once said about Alma Clooney“.  We were friends for a while and luckily she said yes.”  (Photo Getty Images/Article from Parade)"

Will & Jada

Married in 1997, now a family of 5.  What can we say about Will & Jada?  Talented, Hardworking, people that overcome the ups and downs of marriage lived out in the public eye and continue to thrive, because they decided, that's what they'll do. Can you imagine, everyone's nose in your personal business?   (photo from


Do you want to enjoy the Stability of a more Harmonious Marriage?

I help Marriages THRIVE

Marriage is a journey of ups and downs, not always seeing eye to eye but learning to appreciate and value one another. It's remembering why you got together in the first place and working to meet in the middle daily.

Ignite new energy,

connection, joy & respect

and you'll learn 

the Secret of Marriages 

that THRIVE for Life.

  • What is a Super Savvy Spouse?
  • Identify What's grows your Marital Mojo
  • Experience a newness in connection
  • Turn up the dial on love, joy & respect
  • Ignite your communication super powers
  • Stop sweating the small stuff
  • Change adversity into admiration 
  • Find out what Happy Couples already know

What's the Cost of Not

paying attention to your Relationship?

Why do so many marriages fail?

Personalities, Lack of Communication & willingness to work together

Some top causes - Emotions - Stress - Time - Disrespect - Discontentment   

#1 - We all bring our past experiences into the present.  What does that mean to you?

#2 - Are you able to peacefully discuss your differences?

#3 - Do you or your spouse always have to be right?

#4 - Do you treat one another with the same manners you use with others?

#5 - Would you like to raise the level of your compatibility?

#6 - Are you absolute opposites on such things as money, traditions, needs, parenting and decision making?  WHY?

Troubles people have sited in their Marriage


"Taking one another for Granted"

"Unrealistic Expectations create Resentment"

"Insecurity creates Over Control" 

"Hot Tempers"

"Expressing desire in a productive way"

"Too Direct - Speaks their Mind"





"Help in Accepting one another's differences"

"Assuming your partner Communicates the same as you"

"Don't Listen or Talk too much

"Growth minded vs Satisfied" 

"Personal Habits"

"Differences in Spending Money"



Problems for Extended Families

"Letting our separate Grown children interfere in our new relationships"

"Navigating conflicting loyalties (Partner vs Extended Family)

"Treating each other from "Parents Old Patterns"

"Agreeing on how to Raise the Kids"

"Turning into Co-Parents after your children come along & forgetting about your Relationship."

Communication Secrets for Couples

"I loved learning about all of the different personality types, even my husband (who honestly didn't want to do the class) LOVED it once it started!  We still yell out our personality types when they really start to show themselves! "

Nikki Duncan
My Secretary

Communication Secrets for Couples

"I did the DISC program several years ago and it helps doing it again, as years have changed the circumstances in life i.e. retirement, work, empty nest, adult children now married, etc."

Kelly Baker
KBO Credit Card Processing

Rekindle the Romance

"First, I’m loving your romance challenge this week. I’m all caught up in the videos. They are great!"

Warm regards, Elissa

25 Secrets to boost your marital MOJO

FREE - Simple things you can do now, to make a difference everyday.


Empowering Married Couples 

Live Your Best Life.

  • I Know you, like me, want to experience a tightly knit, supportive, enjoyable marriage for Life!  
  • Learn how to keep the attraction?
  • Build a strong marriage
  • Thrive - Even with Kids

It's not where you Start.....but where you Finish!



My goal is to Inspire New Life & Energy Into your Relationship through Insightful, Reliable, Communication Techniques.

The Relationship Transformer,

Connie Durham


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