Open up the channels of communication and finally get your husband to listen to you
in just 5 days….. 

Is communication with your partner feeling impossible?

It doesn’t have to be that way!

  • Learn the secret to get him to listen without feeling like you’re nagging
  • Connect at a deeper level and enjoy more time together
  • Open the channels of conversation and regain the love-connection

Are you ready to Transform your Marriage?


the frustration,


and energy drainers in your marriage

so that you can 

feel in 

Love again


Recognize - Resolve - Renew 

It's all in how we communicate.


  • Here you'll find FREE tools to help you find the Cause
  •  FREE Recording Page, Guides, Courses, and Webinars
  • Beginning course, "A Couples Roadmap" to get you started
  • "Communication Secrets for Couples"  -  Let go of the confusion and frustration in your marriage and bring on a brand new connection & understanding that you never though was possible. 

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The Relationship Transformer, Connie Durham 

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Celebrity Couples Rock!!

I'm sure they have to work harder than most of us to keep the connection.

Chrissy & John

Chrissy & John were married in 2013.  "Celebrity couples may be more high-profile than most, but when it comes to making their love last, they're build on the foundations that make any union strong:  trust, communication, humor, patience and unconditional love." (photo by Karwai Tank/Getty images....Article from "Parade")

George & Amal

"The human rights lawyer and actor have been married since 2014 and in 2017, they welcomed twins Ella and Alexander. “I knew when I met her that she was super extraordinary. I wondered if I would ever get a chance to date her,” George Clooney once said about Alma Clooney“.  We were friends for a while and luckily she said yes.”  (Photo Getty Images/Article from Parade)"

Marriage & Relationships

Ignite new energy, 

connection, joy & respect and learn the

Secret of Marriages that THRIVE for Life.



Marriage is a journey of ups and downs, not always seeing eye to eye but learning to appreciate and value one another. It's remembering why you got together in the first place and working to meet in the middle daily.

  • Would you like to understand how your spouse Thinks?
  • Figure out what brings connection or disconnect?
  • Find ways to Ignite your communication super powers?
  • Learn to quit sweating the small stuff
  • Change adversity into admiration 
  • Are you ready to turn up the dial on Love, Joy & Respect?
  • Find out what Happy Couples already know 
  • Listen to topics that can make a difference - Free Here



What's the Cost of Not

paying attention to your Relationship?

Why do so many marriages fail?

Lack of Communication & willingness to see the other persons point of view

 ***Some top causes - Emotions - Stress - Time - Disrespect - Discontentment   

#1 - We all bring our past experiences into the present.  What does that mean to you?

#2 - Are you able to peacefully discuss your differences?

#3 - Do you or your spouse always have to be right?

#4 - Do you treat one another with the same manners you use with others?

#5 - Would you like to raise your level of compatibility?

#6 - Could your personality styles be opposite causing you to rarely see eye to eye?

#7 - Do you agree on such things as money, traditions, parenting and decision making?  WHY?

#8 - What are ways you currently invest in your relationship?

   Begin Here

1st - FREE - 25 secrets to boost your Marital MOJO

2nd -   The Couples Roadmap to Happily Ever after

3th -  Communication Secrets for Couples - Unleash the passion, connection & joy

4th - Think Tank Monthly Mastermind coming in July

Where do you see yourself?

"Each of us has the freedom to choose how we will respond to the circumstances in which we find ourselves." ~Nido Qubein

Your Marriage May Be:

Very loving and you work as a team.  You even do monthly date nights.....


Even though you're thoughtful and encouraging to one another, you could still be putting your parents 1st, dragging around your college breakup or you could be opposites.  You know like, one super neat and the other quite messy.  One likes a quiet house and the other enjoys a lively home.

Your Marriage May Be:

Rolling along fine, you're making a great living and you both do your part when it comes to making the money, writing the bills, housekeeping, laundry, cooking, yardwork and taking care of the kids.  It's a 24/7 job.


Somethings missing and you find you just don't see eye to eye on way too many things.

Your Marriage may Be:

Hopping along day by day.  You both have busy careers with household and family chores.  Your living in the same house .....


Too many days you feel disrespected and resentful.  You nor your spouse are interested in what the other has to say and there's way too much conflict and frustration.   

Communication Secrets for Couples

"I loved learning about all of the different personality types, even my husband (who honestly didn't want to do the class) LOVED it once it started!  We still yell out our personality types when they really start to show themselves! "

Nikki Duncan
My Secretary

Communication Secrets for Couples

"I did the DISC program several years ago and it helps doing it again, as years have changed the circumstances in life i.e. retirement, work, empty nest, adult children now married, etc."

Kelly Baker
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Rekindle the Romance

"First, I’m loving your romance challenge this week. I’m all caught up in the videos. They are great!"

Warm regards, Elissa


You Deserve


Happy Marriage for LIFE!!

Hi I'm Connie,

Now I've been married for over 35 years and have grown kids with kids, and that means I've seen many ups and downs in life.  I've been there, done that!

Marriage starts out great but soon the stress of money, kids and the day to day grind turns into managing, reacting and dealing with frustration.  Soon you loose sight of what you wanted your life to look like and begin to accept what you get.

 I help you resolve those differences and get past the things that divide you.  Understanding why you're having misunderstandings, will help you resolve them, bringing back the original love and connection you once had.  

I love God, Family & people and believe there's some good in everyone, but you can not demonstrate anything in life that you've not seen Modeled before you.  Simply said, you can only be what you've been taught to be.

There's always room for improvement in every area of live.  If you believe that, you are in the right place.

I like to say . . . . . 

Happy Marriages = Happier Kids

That's because, when we live in a peaceful, well functioning home, we grow up to be loving, thoughtful, intuitive adults.  Home is where the Heart is.  It should be your safe place & your favorite place.

You'll find Free

PLUS when you're ready, check out the Courses that will transform you both into happier, more loving, connected people who will be able to create your.....

"Happily Ever After". 


The Relationship Transformer,

Connie Durham


How to Focus on just one Thing - Second Wind Interview Connie's FB BIZ page

Free gifts to help you in your LOVE Journey


Picture your Dream relationship, with the support, love and connection you always wanted!  Inch by can have it.  Instantly get your List of Habits that create a happy home.

**Get your 21 Habits Blueprint Here


Refill your HAPPY-O-METER because Home is where the heart is.  Bring on the fun, love, joy!  

Listen while you're at the gym, in the car or working on something else.  Checklist included.

Ready to Boost your MOJO?

Begin your Happily Ever After

Learn how to build a Strong Marriage

Family is the core of our society.  Traditionally married couples form a partnership where the man supports the family and the wife cooks, cleans, shops and does the laundry.  But these days both people usually work and split up the household chores.

People come from many cultures, traditions, beliefs along with personalities and experiences.  Once you're married these differences begin to surface.  If you both openly share and spend time working through the kinks, you'll more than likely do fine.  But to often the business of life and the fact that so many people aren't able to easily open up and share their needs, problems begin to surface instead. 

The traditional family is the foundation of society.  When they operate as a TEAM, (just like at work) with each doing what they are best at, success is achieved.  Many families are blended families making the success of the nucleolus, the parents, all the more important.  Remember that peaceful, well functioning homes, develop loving, thoughtful, intuitive children who grow up into adults, usually someone's spouse.

Can you see how life get's complicated?  I'm here to build awareness and guide you in ways  that you can identify the challenges and develop your plan to take your Relationship to "Happily Ever After".

Connie Durham


1st - FREE - 25 secrets to boost your Marital MOJO

2nd -   The Couples Roadmap to Happily Ever after

3th -  Communication Secrets for Couples - Unleash the passion, connection & joy

4th - "Honey, Listen UP!  5 Day Challenge coming  in July 

Blog Posts

New "Enjoy the Journey" weekly posted on Thursdays. You'll also find "The Power of 3 for Couples" along with earlier leadership topics.


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